5 Signs Your Child Needs a Mentor for Growth and Development

At Children Striving Together, we understand that every child is unique, and so are the challenges they face. While some youth have strong support systems at home and in school, others may need a little extra guidance, encouragement, and connection. That’s where mentorship comes in.

But how can you tell if a child would truly benefit from having a mentor?

Here are five important signs to look for:

They’re Withdrawing from Social or Family Activities

A child who suddenly pulls back from activities they once enjoyed may be struggling with something deeper. You may notice them spending more time alone, avoiding friends or group settings, or appearing uninterested in things that used to bring them joy. A mentor can offer a consistent and caring presence, gently encouraging them to re-engage at their own pace.

Their Grades Are Slipping Without a Clear Reason

When academic performance starts to decline unexpectedly, it could signal more than just a need for tutoring. Stress, self-doubt, or personal challenges may be getting in the way of learning. A mentor can help create structure, promote accountability, and empower youth to believe in their ability to succeed in school.

They’re Showing Signs of Low Self-Esteem

If a child speaks negatively about themselves, compares themselves harshly to others, or avoids trying new things out of fear of failure, it may be a sign that their confidence is struggling. Mentors offer encouragement, model positive self-talk, and celebrate small wins, building a child’s belief in themselves one step at a time.

They Don’t Have a Trusted Adult Outside of the Family

Not every child has access to supportive adult figures outside their immediate family. Having an additional trusted adult can be life-changing. A mentor offers a fresh perspective, serves as a sounding board, and becomes someone a child can turn to when navigating challenges or making decisions.

They Seem Lost or Unmotivated

When a child expresses boredom, hopelessness, or a lack of purpose, it may be time to offer additional support. A mentor can introduce new ideas, help set achievable goals, and provide consistent encouragement to keep moving forward.

At CST, our mentors are more than role models; they are connectors, listeners, and encouragers who help youth tap into their full potential.

Think a young person in your life could benefit from this kind of support?

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